Monthly Archives: December 2018

For girls, it is even more essential that mothers anticipate the arrival of the first cycle by explaining what will happen, because otherwise for most, losing blood is a stress and can even become scary if it is in society, unforeseen.

Empowering on capacity

to procreate Most teens do not know the subtleties of the reproductive function. For example, the cycle of a woman is not perfectly 28 days, this oscillates between 18 and 33 days on average, the technique known as “coitus interruptus” is not as reliable as it lets appear, because an emission of a drop or two of sperm is done during the report before ejaculation. As a result, some pregnancies seem to come out of nowhere when they come from a poorly managed report from the point of view of contraception.

The morning-after pill is not well known, but it could usefully be found in teens’ toiletries, especially when traveling or camping. Along with that for entertainment you will always have the free porn games.

And so, why not organize a visit to a general practitioner or specialist comfortable with sexuality to suggest that it explains, with seriousness and context that should be associated, the evolutions and responsibilities in procreation. A young gynecologist would probably be appropriate. What you need to do is find the right person with the right frame, putting the teenager at ease, without the presence of the parent during the appointment. It can be a birthday present!

Accompany the teenager to develop his art of love relationships

Some teens are very sociable, others less, others not at all. A fulfilling sexuality, for most people, is a shared sexuality. To share this, you have to know how to initiate, test, create, nurture, maintain relationships. Shyness must be tamed so as not to be stifling. This is one of the learnings of adolescence: to learn relationships.

Parents and mental health professionals can support this relational capacity. Otherwise, teens channel their impulses either into masturbation (leading them more easily into the spiral of isolation, addictions, especially pornography), or in compensation by other forms (shopping, seduction, etc.)

Help teens assimilate the notion of consent

Making love, having sex is never trivial. We mix intimacy, we expose ourselves, we explore. All this requires the explicit consent of the other. During festivals, alcoholic parties or teens games, sometimes the concept of consent is more variable geometry. This is how sometimes incongruous images or videos, reports made under the influence of alcohol or narcotics etc. flourish. It’s a mess, after the fact. This leaves behind – even in the meanders of the Internet – mental or virtual images that can spoil parts of life.

Helping teens to set their limits, through role plays, readings, discussions is essential to prevent teens from participating in or experiencing any form of sexual violence.